Monday, 9 January 2012

5 Step How to Stand up for Yourself when Your Best Friend Is Being A Jerk


#1 - Know Them. You know your best friend, right? You know what your best friend is capable of. Nobody knows her better than you, right? Sometimes girls, or boys, need to learn how to be a true friend. So just don't talk to them for awhile and see what happens. Don't answer when they talk. You can see what they will do with their reaction. If they are upset, you know she's not hurting you too bad. If she's living her life fine, well then you have a problem. If she's fine and dandy, move on to step two.



#2 - Let Out Your Anger. You could talk to your other best friend, or your teacher, or you mom, or your dad, or anyone! Let people know you are angry! Just make sure they don't spread the word, or things will get tricky.



#3 - Show Your Pain. Make sure you act a little strange around your friend. Act depressed, act angry, act undeniably happy! See what their reaction is to that. If you're depressed, see if they will cheer you up. If not, then move on to the next step.



#4 - Finally Show Her Your Anger. Let her know you are upset with her. You could get up in her face if you want. Just don't get violent, that will get you both a trip to the principal's office. Tell her that you can't take her harmful acts anymore. The worst thing she will do is push you back, but don't push her. She might get worse.



#5 - Don't Be Her Friend Anymore. She will only continue to do harmful things if you hang out with her. Stay away from her and avoid her. Just think, it could be one of the best things you've ever done.



Our Comment;

True friendship is perhaps the only relation that survives the trials and tribulations of time and remains unconditional. A unique blend of affection, loyalty, love, respect, trust and loads of fun is perhaps what describes the true meaning of friendship. Similar interests, mutual respect and strong attachment with each other are what friends share between each other. These are just the general traits of a friendship. Everyone have a friends in their life. It depends on you to treat your friend to become your best friend or your typical friend. Take care your friends like your own family. We take a example from singer group in U.S which is vitamins C group which they compose the song title "graduation" and the lyric is  sound like this "as we go on we will remember all the times we had together as our life change comes what ever we will still be friends forever".. So, in conclusion we have to choose right friends to make our life happy and be appreciated.

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